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Every night across America, 5 to 7 million children are turning off the lights, going to sleep, and wetting their beds.

The medical name for bedwetting is enuresis - "the involuntary voiding of urine beyond the age of anticipated control" - and it's a common condition in children and adolescents. It is also very stressful for both parents and children. For the child wetting the bed, it's often a major embarrassment. For parents, there may be a mixture of annoyance and sometimes a little anger. They wonder if bedwetting is done on purpose or because of laziness.

Who's Affected?
Enuresis affects up to 20% of 5- to 6-year-old children and about 1% of adolescents. Most children with enuresis are physically and emotionally normal. While some may have small bladders, this should not keep them from achieving dryness.

Simple sleep-wetting in children under age 6 is so common that it doesn't warrant a special treatment program.

Enuresis often runs in families - about 85% of children with enuresis have a relative with the enuresis, and around half of them have a parent or sibling with the condition.

Types of Enuresis
Most children have "primary" enuresis, meaning that they have wet their beds since toddlerhood. Enuresis has nothing to do with how a child was taught to use the toilet. Parents should not feel guilty or think they did something wrong.

Some children have "secondary" enuresis, meaning they were dry for at least a few months and then became wet. Although some medical problems, such as urinary tract infections or diabetes, and some family stressors, such as divorce or school problems, may play a role in secondary enuresis, often no specific reason is identified.

Most children with enuresis have nocturnal (or nighttime) enuresis. They wet while asleep. Occasionally some children wet during the day while awake (diurnal enuresis). They may have an unstable bladder, which is associated with frequent urination and urinary tract infections. These children may also be seen by pediatric urologists and occasionally use medication for a few months to relax the bladder muscle.

Constipation is associated with enuresis, sometimes with underwear soiling (encopresis) in severe cases. Usually, simple dietary changes can cure mild constipation, but in severe cases constipation may require aggressive treatment before the enuresis can be addressed.

Primary enuresis can also be associated with other disorders such as attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (AD/HD) and sickle cell anemia/trait.

Causes and Treatments
No one knows exactly why children wet the bed - there may be many reasons. For example, most seem to be very deep sleepers. Whereas other children wake up when they sense that their bladders are full, these children may simply have difficulty arousing.

Some children are drier when sleeping at a friend's or relative's home, but always wet in their own bed. Perhaps when sleeping in a strange bed away from home, they do not sleep quite as deeply. This is especially frustrating for the child and parents. However, this is an excellent sign that the child should be able to be cured. These children may be consciously or subconsciously thinking about staying dry through the night when they are away from home. This kind of mental imagery can help.

"Most parents have tried waking their children up during the night to urinate (not an easy task), but often they are still wet in the morning, and everyone is exhausted," says Sandra Hassink, MD, a pediatrician who runs an enuresis clinic. "Most also try fluid restriction (sometimes to extremes), and their children still are wet the next morning - and thirsty all night. We do not stress these types of techniques. We want children to sleep through the night or awaken on their own. We do stress common sense with the amount of fluids at night, plus avoiding caffeine."

According to Dr. Hassink, enuresis almost always resolves on its own and is not the child's fault. "Success in enuresis treatment depends on a motivated child. Though they might not know 'how' to change their sleep behavior, dry nights can be achieved. We stress that almost no one wets the bed on purpose. After all, it's often embarrassing and uncomfortable. Punishments have no place in the treatment of sleep-wetting, and can make the problem worse. If there is to be success, family support and positive reinforcement are vital."

Most children with enuresis wet 7 nights per week, according to Dr. Hassink, and some wet multiple times per night. "Still, they can become successful at staying dry," she says. "Understandably, most children think that they are the only ones in their class who sleep-wet. We emphasize to them that others also sleep-wet, but since most children aren't likely to discuss sleep-wetting with their friends, it may feel as though they are the only ones with the problem." It is helpful to let a child know about other family members who used to be wet but are now dry.

Parents should discuss sleep-wetting with their child's doctor. A history, physical exam, and urinalysis screening are important first steps - and usually show completely normal results. Many hospitals have established clinics to help treat the problem.

As children grow older, the percentage who have primary nocturnal enuresis usually decreases. A child who sleep-wets is likely to stop eventually. The purpose of a treatment program is to make this happen sooner. Success can come as early as 1 or 2 months after treatment has begun.

There are different approaches, both medical and behavioral, to bedwetting. Dr. Hassink says, "Our approach stresses changes in behavior, not use of medications. Some programs use the anti-diuretic hormone desmopressin that can be sprayed up the nostrils before bed. Most of our patients have already tried these medications unsuccessfully by the time they see us. The 1-year cure rate for the medications isn't as good as you would hope. In fact, it's less than half of that of the behavioral methods. And medications often are expensive. On the other hand, your child's doctor may be comfortable with this approach initially. For some it does work."

Dr. Hassink encourages having the children take responsibility by helping with the wet sheets. This is not a punishment! Rather, children will often feel better by helping with the clean-up process. "We suggest that the children stop using pull-up pants for 1 to 2 months while they are on a program, and do bladder stretching exercises once a day. We also have the kids read a picture book about enuresis each night to reinforce staying dry.

A buzzer alarm (either auditory or vibratory) is a big part of our program. One quarter of our patients have previously tried buzzer alarms without success. But when they use it in combination with other techniques, they do well. We also go over how the children can practice waking up with the buzzer with Mom or Dad there (before going to sleep). Finally, we stress that it takes weeks to months to respond to these techniques and that everyone must be patient. The most common mistake is to do a program for 1 to 2 weeks and then give up."

It's important for parents to be supportive of a child with enuresis and to remember that the long-term outlook is excellent. In almost all cases, dry days are just ahead.

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   If you are wetting your pants during the day here is some info that you can do.
                                                                                                                                                The first thing to remember is ... you are not alone! In fact, 1 in 100 children aged 10-12 and older can experience regular soiling accidents. If you are having problems controlling your bowels it may be that you are feeling very anxious about something or that you have become constipated. There may also be an underlying problem with your diet or some other medical condition such as irritable bowel syndrome.        The best advice is to go and visit your GP who can help you with medicines or other treatments and who will certainly be able to refer you to the right specialist help and support. Try not to be embarrassed about speaking to your doctor - he or she will be very used to talking about this kind of problem.
Here you go that is it.  Update on the 16th of march 2003